

They hit it off, but soon after, the COVID pandemic began.īecause of the pandemic, most of their relationship has been on Discord, but it’s evolved over the DMs. “He’d never been before, so it was fun to show him around,” she said. Finally in 2020, Russo’s boyfriend flew from North Carolina to Los Angeles for their first IRL date at Universal Studios. “Babe what if we kissed and we were neopets,” they would write to each other. Getting to know each other online meant lots of messaging and watching movies over screen share, and for months they texted back and forth on Discord. “It’s been hard to meet people, considering school is online and everything is closed,” Hoang, who said her friends have met people on Discord, told BuzzFeed News. Sydney Hoang, 19, said it’s partly because of the pandemic.


Though it’s not explicitly a dating app, Discord has increasingly become a platform for people to make romantic connections. So I said sure, and he sent me a DM later confirming that we were now partners. “Eventually one day he asked if I wanted to date him. “A few friends started to make a separate, smaller server and asked if we wanted to join,” she told BuzzFeed News. They discussed the characters from the romance-based interactive role-play, bonding over their mutual interest for the story. Ray Russo, 23, met her current boyfriend in 2019, on a Discord server for tarot-based dating simulation app The Arcana. From Twitch channels to the Target customer support chat, digital platforms not designed for dating have been hotbeds for falling in love, too (or making friends, as the Cut previously reported).

But between Tinder swindling and West Elm Caleb, cynical online flirtations might have you wondering if it’s possible to meet someone at all.įinding love is not limited to dating apps, as people are meeting their partners all over the World Wide Web. Spring has begun to melt away the last of cuffing season, and the dating game is now afoot. This is an excerpt from Please Like Me, BuzzFeed News’ newsletter about how influencers are battling for your attention.
